All the tiny buds often seek their parents’ attention. They want themselves to be loved and pampered. Even if a parent has more than one child, each child will expect more love from you, for that fact that it helps them feel secure and better.
Never show more affection towards one child. Love them equally. Each child is different with specific needs and emotional quotient. At one point of time, you are likely to be caught up in the battle of your children wanting you to prove them whom you love the most, which is one of the funniest yet adorable moments of the childhood as well as parenthood. Cherish it.
Words “I love you” coupled with cuddling, could be a medicine for them. Tell them that you love them, even if you have to do it every counting second. These three words will make them happy and feel special.
However, take care that your child doesn’t get spoilt with all the mushy and pampering moments. Set a rule book in place, for them.
Spend some thoughts and surprise them with gifts, they will love it. Do it when there is no occasion. it will elevate their excitement. Give them colourful toys and food names associated with their favourite cartoons, undoubtedly they will say yes to everything that they would have otherwise said no. Surprises work best.