Padma Lakshmi Shares Her Sexual Assault Experience In The New York Times

A week ago, four ladies charged Brett Kavanaugh, US President Donald Trump's decision for the Supreme Court Judge, alleging him of sexual assault. Following this, a few people have addressed why these ladies didn't approach prior and how they enabled Kavanaugh to ambush them.

In light of this story, where individuals are addressing attack survivors on their planning of turning out with their accounts, Padma Lakshmi wrote an opinion piece in The New York Times supporting the victims of sexual assaults.

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On September 21, Padma Lakshmi had taken to Twitter, joining numerous rape survivors, to share the reasons why individuals don't report their aggressors immediately, using the hashtag- #WhyIDidntReport.

What's more, yesterday, in her commentary, Padma Lakshmi portrayed her account of getting assaulted at 16 years old and why she took just about 32 years to discuss it.

WHAT HAPPENED

Padma Lakshmi said that her boyfriend, who was 23 years of age at the time, had assaulted her while she was sleeping. She stated, "On New Year's Eve, only a couple of months after we initially began dating, he assaulted me. While we were talking, I was tired to the point that I lay on the informal lodging sleeping. The following thing I recollect is awakening to a sharp wounding torment like a blade cutting edge between my legs. He was over me. I asked, 'What's happening to you?' He stated, 'It will sting for some time.' 'Kindly don't do this,' I shouted. The pain was unbearable, and as he proceeded with, my tears felt like dread. A short time later, he stated, 'I figured it would hurt less on the off chance that you were snoozing.' Then he drove me home."

WHY SHE THOUGHT IT WAS HER FAULT

After the nerve-racking occurrence, Padma Lakshmi didn't discuss it in light of the fact that for a very long time, she thought it was her fault.

She believed that individuals would point the finger at her for the episode. "We had no dialect in the 1980s for date assault. I had the belief that grown-ups would state: 'What the heck would you say you were doing in his loft? For what reason would you say you were dating somebody so considerably more established?'"

WHY VICTIMS TAKE TIME TO COME TO TERMS WITH THEIR STORY

She stated, "I have been turning that occurrence over in my mind all through the previous week, as two ladies have approached to detail allegations against the Supreme Court candidate Brett Kavanaugh. Christine Blasey Ford said he hopped on her and secured her mouth amid an endeavored assault when they were both in secondary school, and Deborah Ramirez said he presented himself to her when they were in school. In any case, I comprehend why the two ladies would hush up about this data for such huge numbers of years, without including the police. For a considerable length of time, I did likewise. On Friday, I tweeted about what had transpired such a large number of years back."

She at that point likewise specified the sexual maltreatment she experienced at 7 years old, which finished in her being sent to live in India for a year after she revealed to her parents about the occurrence.

CLOTHES DO NOT MATTER

She stated, "You might need to know whether I had been drinking the evening of my assault. It doesn't make a difference, however, I was not drunk. Perhaps you will need to recognize what I was wearing or on the off chance that I had been questioned about my wants. Despite everything it doesn't make a difference, however, I was wearing a since quite a while ago sleeved, dark Betsey Johnson maxi dress that uncovered just my shoulders."

WHY WE NEED TO BELIEVE SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ASSAULT

She additionally attracted parallels to her story and the account of survivors in the Kavanaugh case by tending to the affirmations made by President Trump against Professor Christine Blasey Ford.

Trump tweeted on September 21, "I have almost certainly that, if the assault on Dr. Passage was as terrible as she says, charges would have been promptly recorded with neighborhood Law Enforcement Authorities by either her or her cherishing guardians. I ask that she present those filings so we can learn date, time, and place! (sic)"

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Padma Lakshmi wrote in her opinion piece, "Some say a man shouldn't pay a cost for a demonstration he submitted as a young person. Be that as it may, the lady pays the cost for whatever remains of her life, thus do the general population who adore her. Presently, 32 years after my assault, I am expressing freely what occurred. I don't have anything to pick up by discussing this. In any case, we as a whole have a ton to lose on the off chance that we put a period constrain on coming clean about rape and in the event that we clutch the codes of quiet that for ages have enabled men to hurt ladies with an exemption."

Padma's story and the informers of the Kavanaugh case expose how the world has dependably been brutal to ladies who get out their assaulters, particularly men in control, yet she likewise asked for to change this for once.