
Sex is a biological need of our body and plays an integral part in our lives. It is not often talked about due to the largely conservative nature of the Indian society. However, it is most likely that one has fantasized about it in the mind at least once during his lifetime. So, let us have a quick glance at some of the most common sexual fantasies.
1. Multi-partner Sex
It refers to the incidence of engaging in sexual activities with two or more people within a specific time period and can happen simultaneously or serially. It includes sexual activity between people of a different gender or the same gender depending upon the choice of the individual.
It is interesting to note that those men who identify themselves as heterosexual tend to prefer their inter-course to be with two men but it may not be the case as far as heterosexual-identifying women are concerned. It is because heterosexual women generally do not have a preference as to which genders they hook up with.
2. Power, control, and rough sex
There is a common perception that rough sex usually involves hardcore and brutal inter-course. But, it is far from that as power dynamics are not just about stroking the ego. In fact, they can also make for some scintillating bedroom play.
Spanking, hot wax, restraints, biting, and other dominant/submissive acts are involved in rough sex and BDSM.
3. Changing things up
Too much of anything is boring. It is always desirable to have a little of variety in our lives. This is very much applied to our sex lives as well. Changing things up can help reignite a spark especially in a long term relationship.
This can involve getting laid in an unusual place or perhaps having it in a never-tried-before position.
Taboo or forbidden circumstances
There is a popular phrase that says "Rules are meant to be broken." Violating a rule and the risk of getting caught does involve a thrill factor, no matter what the context is. The feeling of adrenaline rush that comes along with it can also heighten a sexual encounter significantly.
People prefer to act out their desires in their fantasies as it is very risky in real life. Getting arrested for public sex would certainly not feature in anyone's wish list.
Preferred locales for such illicit encounters include parks, offices, beaches, and elevators.
Open relationships
The concept of open relationships has created a lot of buzzes, especially among the youth. It refers to the situation when someone entertains the idea of opening up their relationship to include new partners, with the permission of their other half.
Although it sounds ridiculous, some people favour the idea of being able to watch their partner have sex with someone else.
Passion and Romance
To put it in other words, sex is basically about making love. Sexual fantasies need not always be dirty and a lot of people simply fantasize about having meaningful and passionate sex that makes them feel desired. It could include having proper eye contact with the partner among others.
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