Perfumes and Gifts: The Vaastu Perspective

Gifting has always been an integral part of human culture, especially around celebratory occasions like Valentine’s Day. In fact, gifting a perfume used to be a common and popular gesture. However, as times have changed, the tradition of gifting perfumes has slowly faded, and in some belief systems like Vaastu Shastra, it is even considered an inappropriate gift. Surprisingly, perfumes—along with some other liquid gifts—are said to strain relationships and bring negative energy, thus discouraging their use in gifting practices. This article delves deeper into the customs of gifting, the do’s and don’ts from a Vaastu perspective, and some recommendations to improve your home’s energy flow.

The Power of a Gift and Vaastu’s Influence

In many cultures, giving gifts is a symbolic gesture of love, appreciation, and care. However, Vaastu Shastra, an ancient Indian science of architecture and design, warns that certain gifts can disrupt the flow of positive energy and have a long-term negative impact on relationships. Even if it is not a special occasion like Valentine’s Day, the significance of gifting should not be underestimated.

The Do’s and Don’ts of Gifting: Vaastu’s Perspective

1. Pens and Handkerchiefs
   According to Vaastu, pens and handkerchiefs are not ideal gifts to give to a loved one. These items carry negative energy and may cause tension or harm in relationships. However, some suggest tying a safety pin to the handkerchief to neutralize the negative effects.

2. Black Clothes
   Black is associated with the planet Rahu, and giving black clothes as gifts can bring future problems. This color is believed to attract negative energies, making it unsuitable for gifting to loved ones.

3. Shoes and Sandals
   Shoes and sandals are also considered bad gifts, especially for partners. In Vaastu, shoes symbolize separation and movement, and gifting them implies that the person may leave. This could lead to emotional distance and disharmony in the relationship.

4. Watches
   Watches are commonly given as gifts, but according to Vaastu, they hinder the progress of the recipient. Watches represent the passing of time, and giving one may suggest an inability to move forward in life.

5. Perfumes and Liquids
   Perfumes, once seen as an elegant gift, are now regarded with caution in Vaastu. Perfumes symbolize fleeting moments and are believed to bring temporary emotions, which can weaken relationships. Additionally, gifting liquids such as wine, juice, or cold drinks is also discouraged for the same reasons—they can disrupt the emotional balance between giver and receiver.

The Role of Jaggery in Vaastu

Jaggery, a natural sweetener made from sugarcane, date palm, or beet, holds a unique place in Vaastu and astrology. It is free from artificial chemicals, making it a healthier alternative to refined sugar. Jaggery is believed to have several benefits according to astrology and can help in improving one’s health, career, and even personal relationships.

• Sun Energy and Jaggery
  In astrology, jaggery is associated with the Sun. Using jaggery in specific rituals can help nullify Sun-related doshas (defects) in a person’s horoscope. For instance, offering jaggery immersed in water to the Sun God for eight consecutive days starting from Sunday is believed to bring positive energy.

• Jaggery for Success
  When embarking on a new job or career, feeding jaggery and wheat flour (atta) to cows is a common ritual that brings success and blessings.

• Jaggery for Marriage
  If you are seeking a life partner, feeding jaggery to cows is said to expedite the process. It is also helpful to donate jaggery on Tuesdays if the planet Mars (Mangal) is weak in your horoscope.

• Wishing with Jaggery
  If you have a particular wish, wrap some jaggery in a red cloth and immerse it in flowing water, such as a river, to enhance the likelihood of your wish being fulfilled.

Vaastu Factors Influencing Finances

According to Vaastu, certain factors in your home or office can influence your financial well-being. A few critical factors that may cause financial difficulties include:

• Overhead tank in the North-East
  The positioning of an overhead tank in the north-east corner of the house is considered detrimental to financial stability.

• Obstruction of Morning Sunlight
  Tall trees or heavy machinery in the north-east part of the plot can block morning sunlight, leading to energy imbalance.

• Toilets in the North-East
  Placing toilets or bathrooms in the north-east can hinder the flow of positive energy, which affects the prosperity of the household.

• Store Room in North-East
  Storing items in the north-east section of the house is not ideal, as it can cause financial losses and hinder growth.

• Damaged Buildings in the Front
  Having a damaged building or structure directly opposite your gate can affect your financial fortunes.

• Slopes and Floor Layouts
  Uneven floor slopes, especially sloping towards the south-west, can create an imbalance in energy flow, affecting both finances and personal growth.

Personal Case Study: A Vaastu Consultation

Q:
Mukut Hazarika, via SMS
Our house is a RCC double-storey building with the main gate at the west. My bedroom is at the east. There is another room at the north with a toilet. There is a dry river in the east and a half-filled pond at the north. There is a big pond in my neighboring plot. I am facing a lot of problems in my career, education, and personal life. My date of birth is 26.8.1983. Can you suggest something that will improve the Vaastu?

A:
In this case, the water body at the south, even if it is in the neighboring plot, will have negative effects. To counter this, consider placing a convex Pa Kua mirror to reflect the negative energy. Transform the half-filled pond at the north into a proper one to enhance positive energy flow. Additionally, use pyramids for protection from the toilet in the north-east corner, which is currently hindering progress in your career.

Gifting, when done with thoughtfulness and awareness of Vaastu principles, can enhance relationships and energy flow, contributing to a more harmonious life. Remember, the right gift is not just about material value, but also about the positive energy it brings into the recipient’s life.