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Good Parenting Tips

Good Parenting Tips

Sentinel Digital DeskBy : Sentinel Digital Desk

  |  14 March 2020 10:44 AM GMT

Parenting is not easy. Good parenting is hard work.

A good parent strives to make decisions in the best interest of the child. A good parent doesn’t have to be perfect. No one is perfect.

No parent is perfect.

No child is perfect either … keeping this in mind is important when we set our expectations.

But it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t work towards that goal.

Set high standards for ourselves first and then our children second. We serve as a role model for them.

Many of them are not quick nor easy. And probably no one can do all of them all of the time.

But if you can keep working on them, even though you may only do part of these some of the time, you will still be moving in the right direction.

Don’t just tell your child what you want them to do. Show them.

Human is a special species in part because we can learn by imitation?1?. We are programmed to copy other’s actions to understand them and to incorporate them into our own. Children, in particular, watch everything their parents do very carefully.

So, be the person you want your child to be — respect your child, show them positive behavior and attitude, have empathy towards your child’s emotion — and your child will follow suit.

There is no such thing as loving your child too much. Loving them cannot spoil them?2?.

Only what you choose to do (or give) in the name of love can — things like material-indulgence, leniency, low expectation, and over-protection. When these things are given in place of real love, that’s when you’ll have a spoiled child.

Loving your child can be as simple as giving them hugs, spending time with them and listening to their issues seriously.

Showing these acts of love can trigger the release of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, opioids, and prolactin.

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