A friend of mine, whose husband is a charming person, but who does tend to adopt rather a lofty attitude most of the time, has developed a marvellous method of avoiding full-blown arguments. He believes that he never makes mistakes. The paper he mislaid was entrusted to his wife's care, the faults of the children were due to his wife's neglect, the shirt he bought did not look nice and of course she should have prevented him from buying it, since his mind was engaged elsewhere. In this way he went on putting blame after blame on her gullible head. Whenever anything goes wrong, it is somehow always her fault. When the couple were first married, she used to stand her ground and argue back, but found that it always led to an "atmosphere". So now she takes a different line. She graciously accepts any mistake as her doing. She always tells her husband, "You are quite right-how silly of me".