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Ans: Discipline is definitely important in bringing up a child. But that does not mean we have to hit the child. Beating a child to help maintain positive behavior will cause long lasting emotional damage for the child. Discipline can be used to teach the child that some kinds of behaviour are acceptable and others are not. It is very important to set a few boundaries for our children so that they maintain positive behavior at home. This will also help them to learn how to behave in the school or other social settings.
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Ans: All of us go through some form of stress or the other. However, if it affects our daily life functioning, then we need to look into the sources of stress and also take measures to help deal with it. To begin with, do try and find out what is making you so stressed. Further, here are a few pointers that you could try out to help stay calm.
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Ans: Most homes have the same problem. Children spend hours sitting in front of the television in most homes. This is one leading cause of the epidemic of obesity. Further, it leads to the child engaging in untimely snacking and may even lead to weight problems. At this age, social interaction and regular physical activity is of utmost importance. I would suggest that you please refrain from installing a TV in your child's bedroom.
(Ms. Gariasi Dutta, MSW (TISS) is a Psychological Counsellor at down town hospital, Guwahati. She may be contacted at 98640-55560 or mail at dutta.gariasi@gmail.com)