(Name withheld)
Ans: You have to conduct a self analysis for this problem at hand. Introspect if you treat the people in your life with care and respect. Or do you tend to use them for your own gain? These are issues you need to think over. Simply having a long list of friends is not sufficient. We need to be able to give them time, our adequate concern and also make them feel important in our lives. Are you doing that? How is your behaviour towards your friends? Think over these points at length. You shall get your answer!
(Name withheld)
Ans: What you have described usually depends a great deal on your personality - some of us are able to manage stress better than others. Since there is only so much you can do to alter your personality, here are some suggestions that might help:
- Try to distance yourself from the stressful situation when you can: If, for example, you're having an argument with someone that is causing you stress, move away. Say you will discuss the matter later and go do something else to take your mind off it. Go for a walk, watch TV, talk to a friend, anything that will allow you to forget about the argument for that time.
- You can even take up Yoga or some such meditational activity that'll help you to relax.
- Join some hobby/crafts clubs and make new friends.
Hope this helps. Best of luck!
(Name withheld)
Ans: I am sorry to hear about your aunt. Appreciate the fact that you think about your family members. Going through the symptoms, it appears your aunt is suffering from a psychiatric problem. However, it is important to meet your aunt to make a clinical diagnosis. My suggestion is please consult with a Psychiatrist at the earliest. The sooner a confirmed diagnosis is made, medications can be started. This will help control and gradually eliminate the symptoms. Do feel free to discuss further with me. Take care.
(Mrs. Gariasi Dutta is a Psychological Counsellor with down town hospitals, Guwahati. She can be contacted at 98640-55560 or dutta.gariasi@gmail.com)